Hello, are you there? Well, in the part one of this blog I said the simple calculation for strong relationship is that the end product of love is respect while the end product of respect is love. Love and respect works together. Today, I will be talking about another important factor that promotes love and respect in your relationship. I also spoke about two factors in the part one of this blog; UNDERSTANDING and TOLERANCE, the next factor is EXPRESSION. Expression is defined as the way of communicating thoughts or feelings to somebody. Relationship without communication is dead. One of the problems ladies have in relationship is lack of expression, they hardly express how they feel, they believe if they express their thoughts and feelings in the relationship that the other partner may start to neglect them. Some guys also have this problem as well but ladies suffer it more and the lack of expression has destroyed many relationships or has reduced the amount of fun in it. Hello, take a breath, let continue.
You may be convinced right inside you that you express your thoughts and feelings to your partner as long as you do say ‘I love you’ to him or her. You are totally wrong because it does not end there. Telling your partner that you love him or her is almost a common thing these days, love and respect are very unique, so, everything done and said in your relationship must be unique.
How do you express in your relationship to make it unique? Make it crazy, yes, if it lacks craziness then, it’s not unique. How many times do you say ‘I love you’, how do you say it and when? What do you do for your partner and how? How often do you make your partner feel special and wanted by you? How do you act when you see your partner even if both of you just met some minutes ago? Do you express your fear of losing your partner?
Now, looking at the first question, which deals with how many times you tell your partner that you him or her. To be sincere, you have say it as often as possible, always strive to be the first to say it, take your cell phone and just text to your partner ‘I love you’ to cover two pages, hmm, are you surprised? Don’t be, expression is crazy when it comes to what you want to keep forever. Call your partner and tell him or her ‘I love you’ and drop the call, if both of you are eating, just pause for a while and look at your partner eye ball to eye ball and if he or she ask you why you are looking at him or her, just say ‘I love you so much’, say it anywhere, especially when least expected.
I must advise you to express your thoughts and feelings well and don’t be scared that it will drive your partner away but I assure you, it will bring your partner closer if he or she loves and respect you. See you soon. your comment is appreciated, thanks.