The place of colour in your relationship
I will be writing on the place of colour in your relationship. Do you know that colours are very powerful? Yes, they are very powerful; the truth is that your partner is in love with one colour or the other. Everyone has one favourite colour or colours; it is now left for you to find it. Your partner’s favourite colour is that colour that melts down his or her hearts whenever he or she is in bad mood. Let look at what your partner’s favourites colours can do for you as you drive further to show love in tour relationship.
Colour enhances forgiveness: do you know this? Well, if you make your partner angry and your partner is finding it hard to forgive you why not try using his favourite colour to wrap up a gift and write on it ‘I’m so sorry my love’. That will surely help. Your partner does not have power over how he or she should react whenever he or she sees his or best colour. Try it.
Colour restores lost or dying love: absolutely truth, love can be restored by the presence of colours. Have you ever tried decorating your house or room with your partner’s favourite colours? Take note that you have to do them when your partner is not expecting them. Colours can provoke your partner to love you again. As I said initially, no one has power over how he or she should react when the person sees his or her favourite colour. This can work very well in marriages especially those with weakened love or lost completely.
Creates open mindedness between partners: the love and happiness one will derive from the introduction of colour will create atmosphere for open hearts minds between both couples/
Colour can bring back happiness. Well, for me, whenever I see my favourite colours, I find myself being very exciting and happy. My favourite colour is white and my Love normally calls me her Angel whenever I wear anything with white. I try not to be angry because of my colour. Are you wondering why? Well, I can’t help it, you also can’t, and that is the nature of things. Go and make good use of your partner’s favourite colour(s). Thanks and see you soonest.
I don’t like rats! I hate their mouth,
They make me shout
I hate their colour
Its reminds me of horror
Rats are fearful enemies, always running
In the night, climbing my legs when I’m sleeping
Yes, because I’m sleeping
Always making my sisters to be screaming
Rats are uninvited guests
Always putting me under quest,
Quest for what? Quest for their defeat
I have my fears to beat
I have wage war against THEM
Like that war between David and Goliath
I have my fears to defeat
If I really want to succeed
I heard her sing
I heard her sing like a Nightingale
Her voice was loud and peaceful but was as powerful as a gale
Her voice was louder than that of the Israelites
Calling my attention to the presence of sun light
I heard her children shouting; ‘we are free! We are free!!
Yes, but whose children are free?
The children of her that sings
They have be given some wings
Some wings to be flying
They have being told to stop crying
I listened very well to her song
She sings song of INDEPENDENCE!
She sings; ‘NO MORE DEPENDECE’, NO MORE DEPENDENCE!!
WE ARE FREE FROM OUR TASK MATERS!
YES! AFRICANS TASK MASTERS
Have you wondered what you can lose being frustrated? This is one situation most humans have not being able to handle; some people are easily frustrated and once they find themselves in that frustration, they act in violent way, some will keep shortening their life spam by being quiet while they wallow in pains emotionally, some will stop what so ever they were doing before falling into the frustration mood, some will use abusive words, some take harsh and regretting decisions etc. Which one you find yourself doing, which maybe negative to you and those around you, you just have to stop them. Do you know you can stop acting those ways and be the controller of your actions whenever you are frustrated?
A good friend of mine was frustrated by one project he was doing; the project failed him after so much investment, do you know what he started doing after he got the result that his project has failed? He started drinking! He was used to drinking whenever he is frustrated and he wasn’t happy with it but couldn’t help himself out of it. This is because humans act like something that has been programmed; our body tends to act in a certain way once we continuously act in that way for a particular reason. This is because we get use to certain acts consciously or unconsciously. My friend drank on this particular day and went home driving and had an accident which led to him losing one of his legs! Don’t be shocked please. One of my friends do eat too much whenever she is angry; she buys things, my other friend has formulated a character of destroying his properties whenever he is frustrated. All these people do regret after such actions and want to stop them. Well, I’m trying my best to help them out. Are you like that or you know someone with such character?
I believe that humans can control their actions by choosing to do so and this can be done by choosing to do positive things at all times. Take for instance, if you start from today to engage yourself into music each time you find yourself frustrated, or you start by saying positive things such as I’m not going to drink this time around, I’m not going to eat too much or spend too much this time, I’m not going to destroy my properties, I’m not a slave to this character, such sayings will put you in the right frame to come out of it without doing some negative things. You can control yourself, yes, you can, just say it constantly and your inner part will respond to it. As for me, I listen to music once I’m in a bad mood and it has helped me not to take decisions that caused me regret. This is what I call programming your life to act in a particular way. Best of luck.
A very simple way to fail is by trying to please everyone
I can only write wise saying only if I read wise saying; knowledge investment is the most profiting investment
That it worked for you does not mean it must work for me; being original is the answer.
Successful people don’t join the crowd because they are successful because of the crowd
It is very easy to criticize but difficult to act
Your greatest enemy is your fear
Life is not fair so, don’t expect things in it to be fair
Don’t quest for the point where you fail on floor but quest for where you slipped off
Nothing is free in life not even salvation is free
Life is a race; not all that were conceived were born, not all that were born will enter the main race, not all that started the race will get to the touch line, not all that got to the touch line will receive the award, not all that received the award will survive.
Men of great ideas cannot implement
There is a reward for every single thing you do
Every man will complete his circle period on earth; nobody is too young to die and no one is too old to live
The four Cs and H in the journey for success
Commitment; be committed in anything you do
Consistent; always be consistent
Correction; take corrections when necessary
Communication; make your communication as clear as possible; say your mind
Honesty; be very honest
Hate no one, like everyone but love a few
You can know who a person is by what he says about others than what others say about him.
Be the best friend of the person who makes you smile and the friend of the person who adores you but be the wife of he that brings out the best in you
Never wait till you are pulled, so, take action!
Guns don’t kill; humans do!
People with no ideas makes so much noise
It’s very easy to dream but very difficult to accomplish.
Do not allow people to determine who you should be because what you will be comes from within, make your choice yourself.
Always listen to your inner heart, the truth about yourself dwells there
Knowing who your friends are makes you good but knowing who you really are makes you great.
The difference between the rich and the poor is the lost of opportunity and taking advantage of one
A message for the New Year
The New Year is around the corner and what are you doing about it? In one of my posts, I advised that you try and celebrate your Christmas with a mad person and see how wonderful your season would be. I mean it but this post dwells on what you have to do to get prepared for the New Year. Believe it or not, 2012 will be a very unique year for all; more hunger and more food, more death and more birth, more failure and more success etc. This means that only those with a well programmed life will get more of the positive side of 2012. The question now is what can you do to have a programmed life for 2012?
First, you have to believe that natural forces will have upper hand come 2012 and many more European countries will face much more problems which were caused by their forefathers- colonizing Africans for selfish motives. If you find yourself in that part of the world, try as much as possible to have a food storage centre and save more money and spend less. This means life programming; you have programmed your life to operate in a particular formula. I mean it! What is the next thing to do?
The second thing to do is to be good to all black people; be good to any one with African descent. it is the turn of the black people to rise to the top with greater influence. Countries from Africa will smile because nature will reward them, so, be good to them so that they can be good to you. Remember the needy no matter how small you may be having. These steps are what I mean for your life to be programmed.
Finally, set a target that is realistic for yourself come 2012. Make sure your goals are very realistic write down all your mistakes you did in the past year and write out how you can correct them. One of those targets should be to get married for those of you who are old enough to get married.
These things will help you experience a more fulfilling 2012; please, do take note of all that I have noted here in your note pad because it will surely work out these ways. Check out for countries like South Africa, Egypt, Algeria, China and Iran. HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE!
The pictures you are seeing are some of the pictures of a typical government owned secondary schools in Nigeria; no windows, no doors, with lots of abandoned projects.
A country that is richly blessed with lots of both human and material resources is still faced with lots of educational challenges, one of them being poor conducive environment for learning. When I visited one of the government owned secondary schools, I took some pictures to support my write up, as one can see in the picture, the school have no windows, doors and other basic needs of good learning, I went there during an off school day so as to get the pictures well with no distractions. After taking a walk around the environment, I began to wonder how the students of that school or similar state of school can perform well academically, I wondered what the students would be doing each time it rained with heavy winds, I wondered the kind of attitudes that can be exhibited by the students in those schools. I entered some of the class rooms and I saw the state of the classes; few seats to sit on and some of the classrooms had no seats for the students.
Have you ever put yourself in the shoes of those students? The sad news is that majority of Nigerian growing students attends or attended a government owned secondary schools; this is because majority of Nigerian parents cannot afford the price of a private school which is far better than government secondary schools when compared in terms of academic performances of the students and state of infrastructure. No wonder most government owned schools hardly produce any student with five credits pass required for any Nigerian student to apply for admission in to Nigerian Universities. One of the teachers who spoke to me in my early visit to one of the public schools within the country lamented on the behaviour of the students, “I don’t know what’s wrong with most of the students here, do you know that one of the students who is in SSS 1 recently did his child naming ceremony, he even came and invited some of the teachers and he is just sixteen years old, that’s how most of them behave.”
When I spoke with one of the Vice principals, who didn’t know that I was compiling a report, she complained that most of the students are always hiding inside some of the uncompleted buildings and are always feeling too big to listen to the teachers, this actually make them to graduate with terrible results, some of them even tell us “that they would beat us up if we are not careful.” When I asked the VP if any effort was on grand to assist the students with extra classes, she said, “How can we do extra teaching? The salary is not enough and the students are not willing to pay for the services” the picture became clearer to me; the teachers believed in more pay, more services. I went to one of the classes on that very day on the bases that I wanted to speak to the SSS 3 students and advised them. After speaking to them, I asked them if they would allow me to give them extra classes for free and they responded positively, it then occurred to me that the teachers might have being demanding too much from the poor students. One of the SSS 3 students from art class lamented, “The government have abandoned us, our libraries have no books, our teachers are not willing to teach us well, sometimes rain beat us while in class, we feel heat most times because we don’t have fans, and I feel I have the opportunity to attend a private school.” The entire student I spoke to blame the government and teachers for their plights. The security man who allowed me in to take the pictures told me that for the past six years, no student from that school has made the five credits pass required to gain admission in to Nigerian universities; this has made the students to rely on external exterminations such as GCE and NECO to make the requirements.
I strongly believe that the pictures can tell the true story, it is worst at the state and local government level, the schools are nothing to write home about, and teachers are less concerned while the students are not encouraged to read.
Now that it is Christmas, what should you do? Well, Christmas season is a season of love, care, happiness, peace, remembrance, fun, party, eating, well, the list is much, can’t mention all of them here. Maybe you have done all that I mentioned above during Christmas season, you might have done all of them but have you done what I’m about asking you? Read on to find out what that could be.
Many people celebrate this season with their family members and loved ones but no one has ever celebrated it with a mad person! Does it mean mad people don’t have loved ones or they don’t deserve to celebrate Christmas with you? I mean sitting down with a mad person and laugh out with him or her!
Why not try it this season? I tell you the truth; it’s going to be fine and memorable. I’m going to sit, play, gist with a mad fellow this season. I just want to do something very different this season. Mad persons don’t bite, they need Christmas just the way you and I needs it. Cheers